Checklist.

If there was something we had to discuss, it would be the fact that we didn't know more Love than lust.
A emotional repressed generation trying to find the stitches for this wound that keeps getting bigger.
Males that are told to never show our pain.
Females are told at a young age that a lady is never the first to engage.
A man should never be in touch with himself.
A woman should always wait for a man's help.
A man becomes dirty of sins of the continous battle to prove himself to the world.
A woman is full of sins because she enjoys the freedom that the world has given her.

A man should indeed never hurt a woman but to deem him a little better for destroying another man, also doesn't help, either.
We turn the other cheek if a woman abuses a respectful man but when he reaches his limit, whose word you're going to respect more?

A woman sees her wings and wishes to fly.  She wants to fly sky high until her muscles become sore.  But before she can fly she must ask a Judge and Jury, "How high, how far, how low can she can go?" She waits to move until her verdict is in.

A simple Life is too easy for man.  To feel envy for a cloud is normal for us.  They can take any shape or size, come out day or night or not at all, move as the wind blows in their favor and never judged by how much they labor.

The perfectionist watchful eyes.  In the eye that watches women, a woman's every movement must be perfect, from how she sits, eats, sleeps and what she enjoys out of Life.  In the eye that watches men, a man must be nothing less than a perfect success.  The perfect job, the perfect wife, the perfect car, the perfect house, the perfect child, the perfect relationship, vacationing to tropical estates, ranked high in your business world and if this isn't done by 30 years old, a "forever failure" sign will hang above your head.

Does the way she sits make her any less perfect?
Does the car he has establish that he's established?
Does pizza and beer make her unladylike?
Can a man smell a flower without being judged if he's a man?
Can she go grocery shopping besides not looking like a magazine cover?
Can he go shopping while being on a budget?
Is she a lesbian because she prefers to stand up for herself?
Is he a weakling because he gave into his emotions and cries his Life's pain?

What makes a woman and what makes a man?

"Just suck it up man, stop being a pussy!"

"Excuse me ma'am, but are you sure you know what you're doing?"

"Dude, look what I have and what you don't.  Trophies all around me."

"Miss, you look really bad, did you think any of this through?"

What if he's happy with all he's got?
What if she's glad with the Life she's made?
Maybe he does want to show a little emotion...
Maybe she does want to get her own hands dirty...
Maybe he would like a double standard...
Maybe she's tired of these double standards...
Maybe he's celibate because he's waiting that one true Love to take him away.
Maybe she wants to play the field to see what's out there and to give into her natural urges...

Is it wrong that some men would like to stay in the house, take care of it and the kids?
Is a strong financial providing woman that terrible for our culture?
Do we have it backwards or do Lions?
What's wrong with a little shock in our culture?  A new bang might be what we need.

Are we being fair to one another?  Or have the traditions of being a man and woman run its course?

I would Love to see more female truck drivers and electricians.  I would Love it if more men decided to be a nurse or secretary. I would Love to see a balanced world where gender and race meant nothing but what you looked like.  I would Love it if success simply meant doing what you need to do for your Life.  I hope that one day the checklist of Life would go away and we can Live our Life in any way we saw fit.

Who are you to judge?